Go on 2nd Honeymoon at State's expenses

This article had me choking on my Nescafe and laughing out loud..

The Star Newspaper, N3
Terengganu government is offering to foot the bill for couples in trouble marriages to go for a second honeymoon in order to save the marriages.
Read the whole article : http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/10/13/nation/4888413

If they think sending quarrelsome & about to divorce couples for a 3D/2N trip can patched up their marital problems, they are sure simpletons. Please do not waste the tax payers money, which should be better spent on more MEANIFUL charitable cases.

Successful marriages takes a lot of hard work, couples have to learn to understand and accept each other behaviours (especially the bad grouchy ones after a hard day at work). Whatever one partner does, it must be on voluntarily basis for the spouse and must not resent it.

We are all FLAWED and if we have an attitude ‘what wrong’s with our spouse’, we need to think about ourselves and perhaps, there might is something ‘WRONG WITH US’. It’s not difficult to say sorry (even in cases when we really don’t need to)

Last but not least - make love A LOT!!!!! It is a great stress reliever , keeps you close and a good calories burner too…

The "recipe" for a successful marriage?
Ingredients:

3 cups Tenderness

4 cups Commitment

3 cups Respect

2 cups Trust

1 cup Consideration

1 cup Courtesy

2 cups Support

2 cups Praise

3 cups Cooperation

1 small pinch of in-laws

1 realistic financial budget

3 T of "I am sorry"

1 cup Contentment

2 cups of open and honest communication

1 cup: Confidence

Encouragement

Compromise

Supportive friends

Blindness to each other's faults

Individual interests and hobbies


Flavor with occasional tokens of your love and a dash of happy memories.


Mix in mutual activities and hobbies
(like line-dancing my dear hubby)

Stir well and remove any specks of temper, jealousy or criticism.

Sweeten well with a generous portion of love and keep warm with steady flame of devotion.

Garnish with I love you


*Never serve with a hot tongue or cold shoulder.

PS : Please feel free to improve this recipe with more ingredients!




A man's greatest treasure is his wife (Proverbs 18:22)




I love you dear dar!!